Following having my Corolla totalled in a car crash came the daunting task of shopping for a replacement vehicle. Living in an area with no public transportation, a car is pretty much a need. The advantage of car shopping in 2018 is I can go on-line to a site like auto trader and look up the make and model I am interested in and refine my search to the years I am interested in and even the maximum price I am willing to pay.
When there was model I was interested in I would contact the dealer or private seller to set up a viewing or test drive. The problem with me, I am too indecisive. When I would get back to the seller to say I would take the car, I find out it has been sold. I have owned just too many money pit lemons disguised as cars. Yet my last car that was totalled was the most reliable and trustworthy car I have ever owned. My desire was my replacement car to be just as reliable and trustworthy.
The car I have been interested in is the Toyota Prius. More environmentally friendly than regular gas engine cars, and people I know who own them only have the greatest praise for them. In my car shopping for a used Prius I have discovered there are very few Prius cars on the market in my price range. My budget was up to a 2010. An example of how few there are for sale was a 2008 model, none were local and only 17 were on the market all across Canada on Auto Trader.
So it was a week ago my wife and I drove to a dealer 45 minutes south and took a 2008 Prius out for a test drive. It was a beautiful car, one owner, exactly what I was after and what I needed. And with so few Prius’ on the market I should have bought it on the spot. But the dealer also had another Prius on the lot. It was 4 years newer and seemed to have every option available. Leather interior, glass roof, tinted glass, navigational system, a bigger engine and so much more. I wanted that car so badly. But it also cost 150% more than the 2008 I was looking at, and way over what I was budgeting.
For the entire week I mulled those 2 cars over in my mind. It disturbed me how restless I was, and how badly I wanted that newer Prius. The next weekend was Thanksgiving weekend In Canada and on the Saturday my wife and I drove back to the dealership. It had to be a “God thing” because the dealer was originally to be closed for the entire 3 day long weekend. The owner of the dealership just “happened” to be there for the delivery of another car that had been sold. And he was closing and leaving in 30 minutes. I knew there was not time to taker the newer Prius out for a test drive and discuss a deal, so on the spot I said I would take the 2008 Prius.
Reflecting on this car purchasing process, I was really disturbed how driven I was to want that nicer, newer car. It is very typical of the age we live in. Despite the highest standard of living in the history of humanity, our generation seems to be driven by an insatiable desire for more, better and faster. There is always something out there that is “better” than what we have, and just when we should feel most satisfied, we find ourselves bored and disillusioned. The problem is not that things are bad, but we have lost a gift called Gratitude.
In the realms of the car world, my youngest daughters boyfriend mentioned that the average Bugatti (a 2.5 million dollar supercar) owner has an average of 80 cars. I really found that hard to believe until I looked it up myself. It turns out that number is low. The average Bugatti owner has 84 cars, 3 jets and 1 yacht. It seems those Bugatti owners are driven to want more and more collector cars and supercars. The word Contentment means “To be satisfied with what one is or has; not wanting more or anything else”. In contrast when we have an endless pursuit of more, and live beyond our means it creates an artificial poverty. The discipline of gratitude, by contrast brings natural wealth by freeing us from the snare of comparisons and unrealistic expectations of our wants. It is impossible to be truly grateful and discontent at the same time. We can have very little and feel extremely wealthy.
Whether we have one 2008 Prius or a fleet of 84 collector cars and supercars that includes a Bugatti or two, the Scriptures urge us to maintain a spirit of Thanksgiving and Gratitude in all circumstances. Unless you are the wealthiest person in the world there will always be someone who will have more than yourself. There will always be someone who has a nicer car than yourself. Being grateful is not a gift to God, it is a gift from God. God does not need our thanks, but we desperately need reminders that we are created beings dependent upon our Maker. When we give thanks we align ourselves to what is expressed by Paul, the author of the book of Romans in the Bible. He wrote in Romans 11:36 “For everything comes from God alone, everything lives by His power, and everything is for His glory”.
A major part of joy in life is expressing gratitude to the God who meets our needs (not our wants). It is Thanksgiving weekend in Canada. May each of us be truly grateful to God for everything we have. Not just this weekend, but throughout the entire year. Happy Canadian Thanksgiving. 🙂
4 thoughts on “Lessons From Car Shopping: An Attitude for Gratitude”
Happy Canadian Thanksgiving! Ours is next month November. Congratulations on your new car! Since I had an ocular occlusion stroke in my left eye in November 2008 my driving days are forever over. Fortunately most of New York City is covered by Mass Transit or you can get Lyft or Uber. However both Lyft and Uber can be expensive but I must use these services when I go to the eye doctor. Usually after they dilate my pupils then I can’t see out of either eye! I guess the good part of limited eyesight is I have not owned a TV or a car in years. Audio Books are a gift from God.
I could never live in a place that did not have buses or trains. I would be trapped in my house. The only reason that I wish that I could drive again would be to see my brother Stephen who has Autism more frequently. The place where he lives is not accessible by bus or train so I can’t get out there and must depend on the staff bringing Stephen to me. Not an ideal situation. since most Group Homes for disabled adults are under funded and under staffed. Therefore I have not seen my brother Stephen since his birthday in May. Stephen is my only living immediate family member.
I have been praying for years for God to allow me to be with my brother more often but I finally stopped because the American Government is not going to properly fund programs or services for disabled people. Plus I retired in August and must manage on less income. I often wonder why God would separate us but that is a question that will only be answered once we get to Heaven. In the meantime I am grateful for the few times of the year that I can see my beloved brother.
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Thank you for taking the time to read and share Deborah. I am sincerely sorry regarding the distance separation between you and Stephen due to the transportation issues. This has got to be very difficult for you. In Canada group homes are often underfunded and understaffed as well.
Once I retire myself, I hope to live in an area where there is public transit. Car ownership is nice but it is very expensive.
Hoping your October is going well. Thank you again for dropping by and sharing! 🙂
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Thanks! I enjoy October. It is one of my favorite months because it contains Halloween. Stephen loves Halloween and getting in costume for the party at his Day Treatment Center. Fortunately Stephen’s Day Treatment Center program is accessible by subway unlike his Group home. So October 31st is a big day for us. We get to eat, drink and be merry! God Bless!
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This is awesome Deborah and I am very happy and excited this will work out for the 2 of you. Something to really look forward to. God bless in return! 🙂
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